By extension, I hope that this is for you too.
When we first moved here, it was the week after Thanksgiving during one of the wettest and coldest winters that the area had seen in years. It was thrilling and overwhelming at the same time! We ran out of gas for the furnace in our rental after a week (we had been told that it was electric), and a night with no heat was very helpful in our decision to invest in a wood-burning stove.
When we first bought our stove, I was terrified of it. I had no idea how to build a fire (intentionally...), and I was convinced that we would burn the house down or die of some kind of gas exposure in our sleep! I was, of course, being ridiculous - that happens when you're completely out of your element.
It took me some time - and plenty of smoke - but I am proud to say that I'm now a master fire builder. I can get that baby going, from cold chimney to a toasty fire I can forget about, in five minutes flat. There is something so rewarding in being able to do that - especially now that it means keeping my baby(ies) warm.
So for my past self - who literally Googled "how to build a fire in a wood stove," desperately seeking pictures or diagrams - and any others like her, this one's for you!